What comes first? The marriage or the math lesson? Most homeschool moms (every mom, for that matter) have felt the pull and pressure of trying to balance their marriages and their commitment to motherhood. Hey, most homeschool moms are happy to find time for a shower, let alone a romantic night with their husband. Homeschooling adds a new dynamic to the pressures of motherhood, but it doesn’t mean you need to let your marriage suffer.